The “Golden Rule” has been handed down by religious and philosophical thinkers in one form or another for thousands of years. It’s often pointed out that while most versions of the rule contain a negative instruction–”Don’t do anything you wouldn’t want done to you”– Jesus gave a positive version, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you” (not actually found in the Bible, but a similar statement is issued in Matthew 7:12).
However, while that’s a very important idea, repeated several times in the Bible, Jesus gave what I think is an even greater commandment, or maybe a more emphatic rephrasing of the first one.
After Jesus ate the Passover meal with his apostles the night before he was crucified, he washed each one’s feet as a sign of his love and sacrifice for them. He told them that it was also an example of how they were to love others:
For I have given you an example, that ye should do as I have done to you.
John 13:15
So we are not just to treat others how we want to be treated.
We should do unto others as Christ has done unto us.
But what does that mean?
But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 5:8
God’s love for us was selfless and total. Selfless because he showed us love at the very moment we despised him; there was no reason for him to favor us. Total because he gave everything for his beloved people.
How on earth are we supposed to love people like that?!
The short answer is, we can’t.
The fuller answer is that through the continuing work of the Spirit in us, God makes us more Christlike over time, enabling us to love more like he first loved us. But even then, when we love someone totally and selflessly, we owe our motivation and ability to do so to the same Spirit.
For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate [to be] conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.
Romans 8:29







